Tuesday, April 19, 2022

Intertwining Jewish Families 1913

 OLD TRENTON


I was just randomly exploring Trenton Vines on Ancestry.com, looking to fill in some missing cousin information.  One very interesting link appeared.  There was a news article in The Times of Trenton, on 2 February 1913, page 2, that caught my eye.  Here is a copy:


 


Most of the names sounded familiar!  I don’t know if in 1913 you needed to pay to have a social event covered by the paper, but I really think there was a good chance that The Times was more than happy to fill its pages with news of the social leaders of the city, or their children.

Just so you don’t have to look them up, or decipher the fine print, here is a footnoted version of the article.  I am not going to meditate on the meanings hidden in the notice, except to say that working on this has given me a very strange feeling of time traveling back to 1913.


BIRTHDAY PARTY

Miss Fannie Lavine1 celebrated the tenth anniversary of her birth yesterday afternoon and entertained a number of her young friends.  The home2 was decorated with palms and carnations.  Little Miss Lavine is a member of the sixth grade of the Lutheran School.  She received many beautiful and costly presents.  Refreshments were served.  Piano solos were rendered by her sisters, the “triplets,” Bessie, Mamie and Pearl Lavine3.  Ida Alexander and Fannie Lavine also rendered solos.

The guests were:  Lillian L. Vine4, Ida Vine5, Mamie Vine6, Pauline Vine6, Lillian H. Vine4, Anna Fleisher, Mamie Gordon, Rachel Malin, Dora Lavine7, Lillian Millner8, Benjamin Vine9 and Benjamin Lavine10.

FOOTNOTES:

1 Fannie, who, as an adult, went by Fay C. or Fay Z., was born on 2 February 1903 in Trenton, so the party was actually one day before her birthday; the date of the article was actually her tenth birthday.  She passed away 26 January 2001.  Her mother was Dora/Dvora Vine (1866-1926), daughter of Benjamin Vine of Lida, Belarus (abt. 1834-1901).  Her father was Joseph/Yossel Lavine (1863-1933), son of Bernard Levin, of the Bergman family.  Her paternal grandmother was Celia Vine, sister of Benjamin Vine.  Joseph Lavine and Dora Vine, Fannie’s parents, were first cousins.

2 In the 1912 Trenton Directory, her family is listed at 60 Union Street.  In the 1915 Directory, they have moved to 127 Jackson.  Perhaps the birthday party also celebrated a new house for the family.

3Her sisters were actually triplets, born on 22 July 1898 in Trenton.  Bessie passed away 24 May 1966, Mamie (or Mae) in 1979 and Pearl on 2 December 1927.  Perhaps use of the term “triplets” was unusual in 1913.  Or perhaps they were never referred to by their given names!

4 Lillian L. Vine and Lillian H. Vine were first cousins of Fannie and of each other.  I do not know which was which.  One Lillian Vine, whose middle name is unknown to me, was the daughter of Aaron (who went by Harry) Vine (1871-1932), son of Benjamin Vine.  This Lillian was born 12 January 1904, and died 20 October 1918, a victim of the Spanish Flu.  The other, whose middle name I have as Ruth, was the daughter of Louis Vine (1870-1944), another son of Benjamin Vine.  She was born in 1907 and died 10 April 2005.  Harry Vine’s wife was Sarah Rivka Berkowitz (1877-1954).  Louis Vine’s wife was Sarah Millner (1879-1944), sister of my grandfather Frank.  I do not know who the Lillians were named after.

5 Ida Vine was another first cousin of everyone.  She was born 30 March 1905 and died 7 January 1998.  She was the daughter of Isaac Vine (brother of Dora, Harry, Israel, and Louis, lived abt. 1862-1945).

6 Mamie and Pauline were the representatives of the Israel Vine (1873-1954) family.  Israel was another son of Benjamin.  Mamie went by Molly as an adult.  Born in March, 1903, she died 1 December 1968.  Pauline was born 4 January 1906, and died 5 March 1993.  Their mother was Clara Lidsky.

7 Dora Lavine’s family went by “Levine”.  Her father, Philip Levine, was the brother of Joseph Lavine, so Fannie and her sisters were her first cousins.  But her grandmother was Celia Wein, sister of Benjamin, so all of the Vine cousins at the party were her second cousins. Dora was born 21 July 1903, and died in July, 1995.  Her mother was Mamie Aroniss.

8 Lillian R. Millner was technically only a cousin of one other guest:  Lillian Vine.  Her father, Albert, was a brother of Sarah Millner, wife of Louis Vine of Note 3.  (Since I don’t know if Sarah’s daughter was Lillian L. or Lillian H., I can’t tell you specifically which one was Lillian R.’s cousin.)  Lillian R. Millner was born in September, 1907, and died 28 October 1988.  Lillian’s husband was Joshua Levin, a nephew of Joseph Lavine and Philip Levine.  She had to marry into the Lavine family so that Fannie/Fay and Dora would be her cousins by marriage.

9 Benjamin Vine was most likely the brother of Lillian Vine (daughter of Louis Vine and Sarah Millner).  He was born in 1903 (like Fannie) and, like his cousin Lillian Vine, died in 1918 of the flu.  It is just possible that the guest at the party was actually another Benjamin Vine, son of Israel and brother of Pauline.  But this other Benjamin Vine was born on 12 May 1909, so he was then under four years old and would have been the youngest guest.

10 Benjamin Lavine was the brother of Fannie, star of the show.  He was born 22 December 1905 and died 15 October 1973.


Fred Millner

19 December 2020


Born From The Late 1920's To The mid-40's, We Exist As A Very Special Age Group.

 

Born From The Late 1920's To The mid-40's, We Exist As A Very Special Age Group.

 

 

 

Born   in the late 1920's to the mid-40's, we exist as a very special age group.

We   are the smallest group of children born since the early 1900s.

We   are the last generation, climbing out of the depression, who can remember the winds of war and the impact of a world at war which rattled the structure of our daily lives for years.

We   are the last to remember ration books for everything from gas to sugar to shoes to stoves.

We   saved tin foil and poured fat into tin cans.

We   saw cars up on blocks because tires weren't available.

We   can remember milk being delivered to our house early in the morning and placed in the “milk box” on the porch.

We   are the last to see the gold stars in the front windows of our grieving   neighbors   whose sons died in the War.

We   saw the 'boys' home from the war, build their little houses.

We   are the last generation who spent childhood without television; instead, we imagined what we heard on the radio.

As   we all like to brag, with no TV, we spent our childhood "playing outside”.

There   was no little league.

There   was no city playground for kids.

The   lack of television in our early years meant, for most of us, that we had little real understanding of what the world was like.

On   Saturday afternoons, the movies gave us newsreels sandwiched in between westerns and cartoons.

Telephones   were one to a house, often shared (party lines) and hung on the wall in the kitchen (no cares about privacy).

Computers   were called calculators, they were hand cranked; typewriters were driven by pounding fingers, throwing the carriage, and changing the ribbon.

The   'INTERNET’ and ‘GOOGLE’ were words that did not exist.

N   newspapers and magazines were written for adults and the news was broadcast on our radio in the evening by Gabriel Heater and later Paul Harvey.

As   we grew up, the country was exploding with growth.

The   G.I. Bill gave returning veterans the means to get an education and spurred colleges to grow.

V   A   loans fanned a housing boom.

Pent up   demand coupled with new installment payment plans opened many factories for work.

New   highways would bring jobs and mobility.

The   veterans joined civic clubs and became active in politics.

The   radio network expanded from 3 stations to thousands.

Our   parents were suddenly free from the confines of the depression and the war, and they threw themselves into exploring opportunities they had never imagined.

We   weren't neglected, but we weren't today's all-consuming family focus.

They   were glad we played by ourselves until the street lights came on.

They   were busy discovering the post war world.

We   entered a world of overflowing plenty and opportunity; a world where we were welcomed, enjoyed ourselves and felt secure in our future though depression poverty was deeply remembered.

Polio   was still a crippler.

We   came of age in the 50s and 60s.

The Korean War   was a dark passage in the early 50s and by mid-decade school children were ducking under desks for Air-Raid training.

Russia   built the “Iron Curtain” and   China   became Red China .

Eisenhower   sent the first 'Army Advisers' to Vietnam.

Castro   took over in Cuba and   Khrushchev   came to power.

We   are the last generation to experience an interlude when there were no threats to our homeland.   The war was over and the cold war, terrorism, “global warming”, and perpetual economic insecurity had yet to haunt life with unease

Only our generation   can remember both a time of great war, and a time when our world was secure and full of bright promise and plenty. Lived through both.

We   grew up at the best possible time, a time when the world was getting better.

We are "The Last Ones."    More than 99% of us are either retired or deceased, and we feel privileged to have      lived in the best of times"!

Monday, April 11, 2022

Comments March 2022

 Len and Mike Landau THS '59

 

Allan Blau

When we lived in the Berkshires we belonged to a temple designed by Mike Landau. Fabulous!!!!

 

Cathy Goldman 

Mar 17, 2022, 10:49 AM (1 day ago)

to me

 

 

Cathy Goldman

Mar 18, 2022, 10:30 PM (16 hours ago)

to me

Of course!   I forgot Joel and David.   David I know but haven't seen him in ages.  He's married my friend Joan Gross. 

Ben had a son Richard who lives(d) in California.  He was an attorney and then bought a hotel in LA! 
Rose Berkowitz was a sister. I know one daughter married a Robinson and they lived in Renfrew Ave .
that's what I remember.

Cathy Popkin Goldman

Goldwoman



On March 18, 2022, at 11:08 AM, Al Finkle <
afinkle@kean.edu> wrote:

Cathy, Nataniel married my father's Sister!

 

They had two sons Joel who was Washington Enonitrician and David, A Dentist

 

I'll have make tree tree clearer through some software.

 

All the best

 

art

 

On Thu, Mar 17, 2022 at 10:49 AM Cathy Goldman <cathygoldman621@yahoo.com> wrote:

Hi Arthur 

 

Sharen Popkin sent me your latest email 

 

I couldn’t read the family tree.  But I do not think we are related.  

My Grandfather was Abraham Popkin. Brother Nathanial. Ben. Might have been others but I don’t know 

 

Please add me to your mailing list

cathygoldman621@yahoo.com

 

Thanks 


From goldwoman 

In Boca Raton ðŸ¦ŽðŸŒ´


 

--

---------- Forwarded message ---------
From: Cathy Goldman 

 

Of course!   I forgot Joel and David.   David I know but haven't seen him in ages.  He's married my friend Joan Gross. 

Ben had a son Richard who lives(d) in California.  He was an attorney and then bought a hotel in LA! 
Rose Berkowitz was a sister. I know one daughter married a Robinson and they lived in Renfrew Ave .
that's what I remember.

Cathy Popkin Goldman

Goldwoman



On March 18, 2022, at 11:08 AM, Al Finkle <
afinkle@kean.edu> wrote:

Cathy, Nataniel married my father's Sister!

 

They had two sons Joel who was Washington Enonitrician and David, A Dentist

 

I'll have make tree tree clearer through some software.

 

All the best

 

art

 

On Thu, Mar 17, 2022 at 10:49 AM Cathy Goldman <cathygoldman621@yahoo.com> wrote:

Hi Arthur 

 

Sharen Popkin sent me your latest email 

 

I couldn’t read the family tree.  But I do not think we are related.  

My Grandfather was Abraham Popkin. Brother Nathanial. Ben. Might have been others but I don’t know 

 

Please add me to your mailing list

cathygoldman621@yahoo.com

 

Thanks 

 

 
Todd Siben

Weinstein's next door. Charlie and Katie Rudnick!

 

Thomas Rudziewicz

I like the OW in front of the phone number. Growing up ours was EX.



 
Todd Siben

Weinstein's next door. Charlie and Katie Rudnick!

 

 

Thomas Rudziewicz

I like the OW in front of the phone number. Growing up ours was EX.





·          

Karolyn Diamond-Jones she is my mother, and I don't think we are related to Steven Klinghoffer......


Karolyn Diamond-Jones

Jon Klinghoffer it’s possible- that’s why I shared this with my first cousin as he was done the family tree



.Nedick's State and Broad Sts.


 

 


David N. Goodstein

We remember Nedicks well. Great donuts.